Christmas 2011. A four year old little girl Riley has made a staggering observation about toys. Riley is fed up with toy stores trying to market pink stuff to girls and "different color" stuff to boys. Listen to this tiny genius: “Some girls like superheroes, some girls like princesses. Some boys like superheroes, some boys like princesses. So why do all the girls have to buy pink stuff and all the boys have to buy different color stuff?”
Become who you say you always will. Keep moving. Don't stop. Start the revolution. Become a freedom fighter. Become a superhero. Just because everyone doesn't know your name doesn't mean you dont matter. Are you happy? Have you ever been happy? What have you done today to matter? Did you exist or did you live? How did you thrive? Become a chameleon-fit in anywhere. Be a rockstar-stand out everywhere. Do nothing, do everything. Forget everything, remember everyone. Care, don't just pretend to. Listen to everyone. Love everyone and nothing at the same time. Its impossible to be everything,but you can't stop trying to do it all. All I know is that I have no idea where I am right now. I feel like I am in training for something, making progress with every step I take. I fear standing still. It is my greatest weakness. I talk big, but often don't follow through. That's my biggest problem. I don't even know what to think right now. It's about time I start to take a jump. Fuck starting to take. Just jump-over everything. Leap. It's time to be aggressive. You've started to speak your mind, now keep going with it, but not with the intention of sparking controversy or picking a germane fight. Get your gloves on, it's time for rebirth. There IS no room for the nice guys in the history books. THIS IS THE START OF A REVOLUTION. THE REVOLUTION IS YOUR LIFE. THE GOAL IS IMMORTALITY. LET'S LIVE, BABY. LET'S FEEL ALIVE AT ALL TIMES. TAKE NO PRISONERS. HOLD NO SOUL UNACCOUNTABLE, ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR OWN. IF SOMETHING DOESN'T HAPPEN, IT'S YOUR FAULT. Make this moment your reckoning. Your head has been held under water for too long and now it is time to rise up and take your first true breath. Do everything with exact calculation, nothing without meaning. Do not make careful your words, but make no excuses for what you say. Fuck em' all. Set a goal for everyday and never be tired." — Brian Krans (A Constant Suicide)
Gravity, love, freedom, all the greatest forces are invisible.
And only those who have been deprived of freedom have the slightest inkling of what it is.
Inside North Korea, a documentary aired in April 2013. A reporter goes undercover into a place clothed in mystery and unanswered questions: North Korea. The dark spot on a map, the ultimate Orwellian state, the never-ending hunger crisis, the brainwash machine...Only guesses, each grimmer than the previous. What's the truth? Taking us just a few steps closer to really understanding the minds of North Korean leaders and most importantly, the minds of the people, BBC Panorama Documentary.
Another thrilling story to illustrate just how difficult it is to escape the authoritarian state, the story of Hyeonseo Lee "My Escape From North Korea", a TEDtalk:
"Fantasy. Lunacy. All revolutions are until they happen, then they are historical inevitabilities."
-David Mitchell
Take care of your body: it's the only place you have to live in.
And it's pretty freaking incredible. So use it to do something remarkable, that's what it's for.
“Naturally, for a person who finds his identity in something other than his full organism is less than half a man. He is cut off from complete participation in nature. Instead of being a body, he 'has' a body. Instead of living and loving he 'has' instincts for survival and copulation.” ― Alan Wilson Watts
"Hundreds of schoolchildren are heading to Downing Street this morning to put hunger on the agenda ahead of the Nutrition for Growth event.
They'll be handing in paper plates created by schools countrywide (these are just some of them in our office!) with messages asking the PM to act. Good luck team!"
The sexist male panel on FOX has gone viral in the past few days and sparked some well needed conversation on right wing gender ideology in the US. While initially I was rather offended and shocked, but willing to shrug it off as the typical kind of absurdity only the GOP extremists would articulate I decided to look deeper into the issue gender equality.
First, watch this all-male FOX panel have what I can only describe
as the new Greatest Freakout Ever over the "deeply disturbing"
statistics by PEW research centre on female breadwinners. The medieval universe
these misogynists live is one where the male hunts and female nurtures, aka one
which has not existed for some 60 000 years but that is, of course, irrelevant.
The deeply disconcerting fact is that there are educated American female voters
out there who agree with this bitchfest of a panel.
Nevertheless, for a moment let's take these Foxy men seriously,
if only for the sake of argument. Let's say the income of women increases to
the same level as that of men, or very close. I wonder what that would lead
to? Lucky for Fox, America doesn't have
to face this terrifying future without any previous empirical data. It just so
happens other states have already tested out the scenario and I will illustrate
the results as an extended case study to uncover the chaos resulting from women
leaving the kitchenette and joining the national workforce.
Ever been to Northern Europe? After spending 19 years there
and some in the United States and Great Britain I cannot quite sufficiently
emphasize the immense effect incorporating women into the labour force has on a
country's economy and standard of living. It is no coincidence that
Scandinavian and other Northern European countries such as Finland dominate the
charts on smallest income gap, least corrupted, highest student performance in
sciences, universally free education from kindergarten to PhD, highest rankings
on the Human Development Index and rated most democratic. Growing up I often
heard teachers and parents remarking how lucky I had been. How being born in
Finland was like winning the lottery. As children we would all laugh and
presume teachers across the world would have a similar narrative about their
state. Only after spending a considerable amount of time in the States and
later in Great Britain I came to see just how accurate my teachers had been in
their analysis. I never felt being a woman disadvantaged me growing up and
attending school in Finland, quite the opposite. My success in education was
celebrated, it was so extraordinarily obvious that men and women both would
join the workforce, pursue their dream profession and provide for a family
together, should they choose to have one. I felt my gender made no difference
whatsoever. Gender is quite literally, a non-issue in this particular part of
the world. However until I left the country I was naively unaware that outside
Northern Europe, I was in fact a second class citizen and ambition in a woman
was something to be looked down upon. This was an entirely new experience for
me and at times I still find it shocking that states so similar to my home,
developed and democratic countries would actively pursue the oppression of
women. It seems almost preposterous and certainly illogical. As articulated by
Bill Clinton; No country will ever achieve its greatest potential by disregarding
50% of its human capital. However, the issue of working mothers can't be fully
understood through partisan politics as most often or not, the vast majority of
Americans are guilty of supporting traditional gender dynamics to a much
greater extent than they care to admit.
Psychologists in the United States have revealed it over and
over again; success and likability are positively correlated for men and
negatively correlated for women. The mentality on successful women ought to be
dissected and reconstructed. Obviously the arguments of this FOX panel are outlandish
and ill-informed, however, these men are not the only ones to share this view.
Many subconsciously agree with certain aspects of the dominant male-ideology.
Even females. What most people will only reluctantly admit, powerful women make
us deeply uncomfortable. No, not me, you're thinking, "I'm evolved past
that". Chances are, you're not. Consider what Sheryl Sandberg sums up from
studies on the subject: when men are successful they are more liked by both
sexes but when women are successful they are less liked by not only men, but
women as well. Women are in many ways holding themselves back. I won’t deny
that these results couldn’t be replicated with the same results in Northern
Europe, in fact should I ever have the chance to test them out I’d be curious
to find out. The reaction to dominant females is perhaps not as visceral as in
the United States, but most likely still somewhat present. But fear not! By
recognizing this pattern of thinking we will eventually redefine what it means
to be a successful female and surround the definition with positive
connotations. Women have to redefine their mind set as well.
I'd also like to point to a debate which followed the
male-panel freakout, led by none other than Megyn Kelly from FOX news.
I'm not in general one to agree with Kelly on various disputes
but I have to hand it to her on this one. I'll admit it, I'm becoming a fan.
She's no Rachel Maddow, but she has some serious balls. She's really made an
effort to pave way to educated and intelligent Republican women recently and
aided in bit by bit steering the GOP into a direction where smart women aren't
forced into such cognitive dissonance over their right wing alignment. Overall,
the GOP and the US as a whole desperately needs more women like Kelly to rise
to the barricades and call out this lunacy, particularly considering how unwavering these WASPS remain in the face of scientific studies and facts. Watch
Kelly take on the sexism of the FOX panel and prepare to clap at her professionalism in the face of unscientific absurdity: