Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Sympathy For The Devil

Are madness and greatness two sides of the same coin?



“That's an incredibly depressing thought," I said "that if you're in a room and at one end lies madness and at the other end lies sanity it is human nature to veer towards the madness end.” 
― Jon RonsonThe Psychopath Test: A Journey Through the Madness Industry

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

I am, I am, I am


"Men are haunted by the vastness of eternity. And so we ask ourselves: will our actions echo across the centuries? Will strangers hear our names long after we are gone, and wonder who we were, how bravely we fought, how fiercely we loved?"

-Iliad and Odyssey


Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked no lightning they
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieve it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight
Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on the sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
by Dylan Thomas

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Disconnect.


Because when it comes to technology, to labor-saving devices; never was one invented that saved anyone a minute's work.




“The production of too many useful things results in too many useless people.” 
― Karl Marx

"As increased industrial efficiency makes it possible to procure the means of livelihood with less labor, the energies of the industrious members of the community are bent to the compassing of a higher result in conspicuous expenditure, rather than slackened to a more comfortable pace. 

...this want ...

is indefinitely expansible, after the manner commonly imputed in economic theory to higher or spiritual wants.

 It is owing chiefly to the presence of this element in the standard of living that J. S. Mill was able to say that "hitherto it is questionable if all the mechanical inventions yet made have lightened the day's toil of any human being."

-Thorstein Veblen, The Theory of the Leisure Class: An Economic Study of Institutions (1899).


Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Here's To The Crazy Ones.



"Don't exist. 

Live.
Get out, explore.
Thrive.
Challenge authority. Challenge yourself.
Evolve.
Change forever.

Become who you say you always will. Keep moving. Don't stop. Start the revolution. Become a freedom fighter. Become a superhero. Just because everyone doesn't know your name doesn't mean you dont matter.

Are you happy? Have you ever been happy? What have you done today to matter? Did you exist or did you live? How did you thrive?

Become a chameleon-fit in anywhere. Be a rockstar-stand out everywhere. Do nothing, do everything. Forget everything, remember everyone. Care, don't just pretend to. Listen to everyone. Love everyone and nothing at the same time. Its impossible to be everything,but you can't stop trying to do it all.
All I know is that I have no idea where I am right now. I feel like I am in training for something, making progress with every step I take. I fear standing still. It is my greatest weakness.

I talk big, but often don't follow through. That's my biggest problem. I don't even know what to think right now. It's about time I start to take a jump. Fuck starting to take. Just jump-over everything. Leap.
It's time to be aggressive. You've started to speak your mind, now keep going with it, but not with the intention of sparking controversy or picking a germane fight. Get your gloves on, it's time for rebirth. There IS no room for the nice guys in the history books.

THIS IS THE START OF A REVOLUTION. THE REVOLUTION IS YOUR LIFE. THE GOAL IS IMMORTALITY. LET'S LIVE, BABY. LET'S FEEL ALIVE AT ALL TIMES. TAKE NO PRISONERS. HOLD NO SOUL UNACCOUNTABLE, ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR OWN. IF SOMETHING DOESN'T HAPPEN, IT'S YOUR FAULT.

Make this moment your reckoning. Your head has been held under water for too long and now it is time to rise up and take your first true breath.
Do everything with exact calculation, nothing without meaning. Do not make careful your words, but make no excuses for what you say. Fuck em' all. Set a goal for everyday and never be tired." 

— Brian Krans (A Constant Suicide)


Sunday, June 2, 2013

Mothers, Daughters, Sisters, Wives, This Is For You





Fuck being a lady.

Be a boss instead.

Be fearless.


Fuck being nice.

Fuck being sweet.




Make no mistake. I love my men. In fact, I love everything about them.

But I love my girls just as much. 



Saturday, June 1, 2013

Tha Conservative Male Freakout Over Working Women


The sexist male panel on FOX has gone viral in the past few days and sparked some well needed conversation on right wing gender ideology in the US. While initially I was rather offended and shocked, but willing to shrug it off as the typical kind of absurdity only the GOP extremists would articulate I decided to look deeper into the issue gender equality.

First, watch this all-male FOX panel have what I can only describe as the new Greatest Freakout Ever over the "deeply disturbing" statistics by PEW research centre on female breadwinners. The medieval universe these misogynists live is one where the male hunts and female nurtures, aka one which has not existed for some 60 000 years but that is, of course, irrelevant. The deeply disconcerting fact is that there are educated American female voters out there who agree with this bitchfest of a panel.

Nevertheless, for a moment let's take these Foxy men seriously, if only for the sake of argument. Let's say the income of women increases to the same level as that of men, or very close. I wonder what that would lead to?  Lucky for Fox, America doesn't have to face this terrifying future without any previous empirical data. It just so happens other states have already tested out the scenario and I will illustrate the results as an extended case study to uncover the chaos resulting from women leaving the kitchenette and joining the national workforce.

Ever been to Northern Europe? After spending 19 years there and some in the United States and Great Britain I cannot quite sufficiently emphasize the immense effect incorporating women into the labour force has on a country's economy and standard of living. It is no coincidence that Scandinavian and other Northern European countries such as Finland dominate the charts on smallest income gap, least corrupted, highest student performance in sciences, universally free education from kindergarten to PhD, highest rankings on the Human Development Index and rated most democratic. Growing up I often heard teachers and parents remarking how lucky I had been. How being born in Finland was like winning the lottery. As children we would all laugh and presume teachers across the world would have a similar narrative about their state. Only after spending a considerable amount of time in the States and later in Great Britain I came to see just how accurate my teachers had been in their analysis. I never felt being a woman disadvantaged me growing up and attending school in Finland, quite the opposite. My success in education was celebrated, it was so extraordinarily obvious that men and women both would join the workforce, pursue their dream profession and provide for a family together, should they choose to have one. I felt my gender made no difference whatsoever. Gender is quite literally, a non-issue in this particular part of the world. However until I left the country I was naively unaware that outside Northern Europe, I was in fact a second class citizen and ambition in a woman was something to be looked down upon. This was an entirely new experience for me and at times I still find it shocking that states so similar to my home, developed and democratic countries would actively pursue the oppression of women. It seems almost preposterous and certainly illogical. As articulated by Bill Clinton; No country will ever achieve its greatest potential by disregarding 50% of its human capital. However, the issue of working mothers can't be fully understood through partisan politics as most often or not, the vast majority of Americans are guilty of supporting traditional gender dynamics to a much greater extent than they care to admit.

Psychologists in the United States have revealed it over and over again; success and likability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women. The mentality on successful women ought to be dissected and reconstructed. Obviously the arguments of this FOX panel are outlandish and ill-informed, however, these men are not the only ones to share this view. Many subconsciously agree with certain aspects of the dominant male-ideology. Even females. What most people will only reluctantly admit, powerful women make us deeply uncomfortable. No, not me, you're thinking, "I'm evolved past that". Chances are, you're not. Consider what Sheryl Sandberg sums up from studies on the subject: when men are successful they are more liked by both sexes but when women are successful they are less liked by not only men, but women as well. Women are in many ways holding themselves back. I won’t deny that these results couldn’t be replicated with the same results in Northern Europe, in fact should I ever have the chance to test them out I’d be curious to find out. The reaction to dominant females is perhaps not as visceral as in the United States, but most likely still somewhat present. But fear not! By recognizing this pattern of thinking we will eventually redefine what it means to be a successful female and surround the definition with positive connotations. Women have to redefine their mind set as well.

I'd also like to point to a debate which followed the male-panel freakout, led by none other than Megyn Kelly from FOX news.


I'm not in general one to agree with Kelly on various disputes but I have to hand it to her on this one. I'll admit it, I'm becoming a fan. She's no Rachel Maddow, but she has some serious balls. She's really made an effort to pave way to educated and intelligent Republican women recently and aided in bit by bit steering the GOP into a direction where smart women aren't forced into such cognitive dissonance over their right wing alignment. Overall, the GOP and the US as a whole desperately needs more women like Kelly to rise to the barricades and call out this lunacy, particularly considering how unwavering these WASPS remain in the face of scientific studies and facts. Watch Kelly take on the sexism of the FOX panel and prepare to clap at her professionalism in the face of unscientific absurdity: 






Thursday, May 30, 2013

Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are

Fake it till you make it.



Act like a boss, become a boss. Sounds too simple? The science of body language begs to disagree. You've heard it before: by pretending we are something, we eventually become it. Now, I don't mean literally by pretending I'm the president I'll find myself in the Oval Office soon enough, that's called a schizophrenic delusion. However, if you are an introvert, by acting like an extrovert you actually become more like one and the same logic applies to a number of other dimensions of our personality. The intersection between biology and psychology is really interesting here and this is a prime example of just how intimately connected the our psychological experiences are with our biology. You can consciously change the way you think, but did you know you can also change the chemical composition of your brain? Without giving away the brilliant results Amy Cuddy, a social psychologist, will reveal in this TEDtalk, I will only note this: the way others perceive a person is not key, how that person perceives themselves is what makes a world of difference. Amy Cuddy is not only terrifically insightful, she is also someone you can relate to, the prefect person to give this talk.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

How To Spot A Liar

How To Spot a Lie By Pamela Meyer, a Tedtalk:

Everyone lies. According to research, on any given day we are told a lie anywhere between 10 to 200 times. Now, some lies are harmless. White lies.

Some are significant and destructive.

How do we know when a person is lying? Not as challenging as one might expect. The above video features some nearly fool-proof and eye-opening lie spotting techniques that catch a lie accurately over 90 % of the time. Pamela Meyer, CEO of Simpatico, worked for several years with leading researchers of deception in the military, psychology, espionage and law-enforcement and is trained in interpreting behavior and body language, interrogation, microexpressions and statement analysis. 
                 

Friday, May 24, 2013

How Man Became God

Technology is psychedelic and psychedelic = manifestation of the mind



Richard Dawkin's idea of memes, self replicating units of knowledge that have DNA-like abilities is one of the most fascinating cognitive philosophic ideas possibly ever articulated  Essentially all information are memes. Why are memes important? Because of them we are on the fast track to becoming Gods. In this video Jason Silva explores in a conference titled "Dangerous Ideas" the evolution of humanity, existence and nature of information and the infinity of possibilities that can and have manifested from our minds. The ways in which we extend ourselves makes man a bridge and the latter to the skies, literally and metaphorically
Man can create life.

Everything man has created is  the epiphenomenon of the human mind, the non-physical creating physical, virtually something out of nothing.



Monday, May 20, 2013

Black Doll, White Doll, Which one is the nice doll?


We are all aware of the history of racism in America. However when it comes to present day racism, there is whole a different narrative. The following video is a study about race that will make your jaw drop:


Doll test originally by psychologists Kenneth and Mamie Clark:

 In the 21st century US, white skin is associated with a myriad of positive characteristics and adjectives. The halo effect of light skin tone is so bright and blatant that children as young as age four have internalized the connections. The halo effect is a kind of cognitive bias, where our overall impression, or what we perceive as the sum up of this impression (attractive / smart / agreeable / unintelligent) of a person influences how we judge their character. If we perceive a person to be attractive, ironically, we also assume them to be intelligent, kind and generally likable. When definitions of physical attractiveness are altered, consequently the definitions of the good, the bad and the ugly change as well. It is naturally impossible to clearly define the point at which the Western society decided that white is beautiful, as the issue is better understood as a long historical process of all encompassing politics of domination and persistent hierarchies. In the modern and past US, power, physical attractiveness and intelligence have always gone hand in hand and continue to do so. One need only possess one or two of the attributes, to be all three. While it may appear obvious that intelligent people can be unattractive and powerful people are not always intelligent, however, our social reality and the definitions of its aspects need not have anything to do with reality yet everything to do with our constructed social realities. 

It is heartbreaking to consider that even children believe this social reality to be unchangeable and take it for granted. What is crucial  here is to be aware of the halo effect and to understand that it comes from our primitive emotional brain. Moreover, beauty, among other positive traits which create a halo, is nothing but what the general public believes it to be. 

“Standing still is never an option so long as inequities remain embedded in the very fabric of the culture.” 
-Tim Wise



Thursday, May 16, 2013

Women are not making it to the top of any profession, anywhere in the world.


A brilliant and insightful TED talk about why women't don't sit at the table or raise their hand and what are the consequences of these seemingly small differences.

"Why We Have Too Few Women Leaders" by Sheryl Sandberg

To watch more TED talks: http://www.ted.com/talks